Wow. super long post. TL;DR You can't impose ideology or your thoughts on people. You need to make them want to use your product, taking into account the lazy human nature and the many trade-offs they have to make in their busy lives. History clearly shows that there is no should in a free market where people have free choice, but only superior or inferior products, with benefits judged against disadvantages:
Yeah, I'm not sure about RBF. That's another sort of checkmate with just one move left. Blocks are clearly full at the moment with almost 200 million dollars stuck if - as you stated - 400k btc are in a backlog. That is a lot of stuck value. Some people say they were waiting for hours or even days. Re-sending the tx with a higher fee helps in those cases, then other txs get stuck, those ppl re-send with higher fees - a race to the top I guess - perhaps.
On the other hand, it fully kills bitcoin as a payment system while there is no bitcoin based alternative. Merchants won't be able to accept 0confs anymore and with rbf even 1conf aren't safe.
What confuses me is that Todd has been speaking about a "banking" settlement system for three years now if not more. We all know about his propaganda video, etc. I mean, fine, that's what he believes, that's his right, but why did he never produce Lightning or anything like that. Same applies to gmax. They've been arguing about 1mb forever since forever. Fine, I mean, it's what they believe and their right to believe, but why have they produced nothing in three years - just talk talk talk. You want a settlement system, great, where are the products?
Now, currently, we don't have a settlement system. What we have is only onchain txs. There is no LN alternative or any alternative save for you know other digital currencies.
Let us suppose we all get behind rbf as todd and gmax would like. What happens then? Well, bitcoin becomes slow, unpredictable, highly frustrating, unusable for payments without waiting for hours (my bank does them literally instantly), etc. which is the case already for merchants that demand 3 confirms or whatever but rbf forces all - despite whatever free decision they wish to make - to wait for at least 2 confirms - or around 20 mins/half an hour.
The solution, according to - presumably - their belief is this banking settlement network - but since this bank network is not here, on what logical basis can rbf be pushed at this point or inistance on keeping transactions, and by association price, capped?
Maybe if we look at their language we find an answer. They speak of Classic, which of course gives everyone a free choice - as "forcing" everyone. Since that is incorrect because Classic is simply some code everyone can freely choose to run or otherwise - it may be the case that by their language they betray their thoughts. That is, they wish to "force" everyone to accept rbf, accept the banking network, accept the non-usability of the public blockchain, by giving them no choice.
If we had LN we could judge it. I mean, we do have LN - thunder - but if LN is different and we had it, we could judge it, see whether it works or how it works, whether it is usable or non usable. But clearly they don't have any confidence in LN. If they did, they would have worked on it for the past three years, have it here already, rather than telling us we will have LN by June which is obviously not gone happen.
Same with segwit. Gmax himself stated that as tx backlog goes higher and fees increase, miners will have no choice but to adopt segwit. Of course, they could just change a 1 to 2, but, that didn't pass his mind.
I may of course be wrong, but I think both gmax and todd are smart guys. I think they know the bank network is inferior for usability and if it was left to the free market it "may" or perhaps it likely would not adopt it. So they engage in chess, making moves that seemingly gives the network no choice.
I don't really know much about gmax's or todd's philosophy. I can imagine however that they think they have a solution which protects freedom. That there must be absolute privacy or that everyone should be fully anonymous etc. The problem is of course that there are tradeoffs. Tor is pretty private, but dead slow and hardly usable (and when govs have wanted have cracked it - see SR). PGP is fully private and secure, but too complicated.
Privacy has value, especially in a free country, but I believe they are repeating the exact same mistakes made in the 90s. Just as then, now too, in their arrogant attitude of should, they tell users you must do this. Of course they "must" do nothing. They have full autonomy and freedom and can do whatever they wish regardless of anyone's opinion. Yes, it's good if everyone used PGP, but, people aren't robots and their time is incredibly valuable. They are not going to spend any effort unless it is dead easy.
You have to induce them. Apple for example inherently encrypting all communication - that is far more superior than pgp because it is easy, seamless and requires zero efforts.
People have many considerations and a busy life seeing as their time is very limited. They know what is nice - exercise - but only few engage in it - eating well - few do - studying, gaining knowledge - again few do - not smoking or drinking - yet plenty engage in them etc.
They miss the tradeoffs between time/convinience and privacy and think that if they changed the narrative or forced people then suddenly they will have full privacy, but history shows otherwise. They just don't use it.
Same can be said about the an-cap ideology which tries to impose itself upon bitcoin. They think that if their ideology can be stuck to this cool new thing - a genius invention by any measure - then all the sudden the masses will accept their opinions. As we are seeing, the opposite happens. The masses turn against the tool itself, because and only because of the ideology imposed on it.
Read Hacker News. They as good as hate bitcoin. Why? Because of attempts to dogmatically impose a certain ideology in the misguided thinking that if the two are linked then the ideology will be accepted. There are reasons why the ideology has been rejected by the masses and just because it leeches onto a cool new thing it doesn't necessarily make the ideology accepted.
Hacker News is libertarian and Silicon Valley has a great tradition of empowering people, but they are practical too, not dogmatic, they can use logic, rationality and thinking, taking into account potential problems, rather than rigidly abiding by some dogma. They don't dream of ordering people, only of pleasing people, under rational and logical thinking of making the world better for all.
So todd and gmax is wrong in my view, just as their elders were wrong in the 90s, in creating pretty good privacy for a niche no one cares about while leaving everyone else naked under full surveillance. They should learn from Steve Jobs, from Apple's easy use, experience, and the added benefit of inbuilt encryption. They should see the tradeoffs and turn their thinking from it should be thus to, ok, these are good things, but how do we make them want this stuff, how do we make it seamless, how do we make the masses actually use it rather than catering to only a tiny niche.
Now, of course, catering to a tiny niche is great too, but bitcoin is the largest coin, not a niche. If you wish to create a pgp version or tor version of bitcoin, great. But to think that pgp like or tor like inconvenience can be added to bitcoin and bitcoin still remain the most used or even relevant as far as the masses are concerned is not based on any logical thinking and is disproved by history.
Furthermore, it is highly interesting that no one is talking about sharded bitcoin if decentralization was a consideration.
Todd and Gmax should perhaps consider whether Finney was wrong and why whatever it was the three worked on failed miserably while Bitcoin has succeeded. They should recognize that, perhaps, they are wrong, and shift their view from a dogmatic position, to a consideration of why they failed and to a deeper understanding of bitcoin. Specifically, how it manages to both empower the masses while making the masses want it.
They can work on inbuilt encryption, etc, if it retains the desire of the masses to use it and only if it does so, because if no one wants to use it then for who is the inbuilt privacy which comes at the cost of, perhaps, slowness, inconvenience etc.
Gmax, Todd and Hal Finney, failed, and though I have not really looked at what they were working, I suspect they failed because they made the wrong trade-offs. If those same mistakes are repeated, then bitcoin too will fail, but not the genius invention... plenty of smart people gave Nakamoto the ear and took his statements at face value - look at Ethereum.
They should learn from their mistakes, rather than repeating them and, despite having badly failed, try to impose their will, instead of recognizing what made bitcoin successful while their previous work/thinking/dogma showed itself to be fully wrong.